CORE-RELATE! You need to pass the time productively by channeling your thoughts to things that make sense. You have to know how to delineate your thoughts and your emotions to be more productive. Because more often than not, our hearts can be deceitful. But then our instincts are not always right and trustworthy. Still, it pays to err on the side of caution.
Trust isn't and shouldn't be given freely. It is earned. And so is RESPECT.
Respect. It is and should always be an ABSOLUTE concept. Respect shouldn't be just for those in the higher-ups. And RESPECT is given when we COMMAND it. So how do we do that?
Mystery. Keep them guessing. "Familiarity breeds contempt."
Be still. Keep your mouth shut and your senses wide open.